Friday, September 28, 2012

Turkish Rumba

I went to a Rumba group class taught by the young Turk recently.  He's a piece of work - he started at the studio after I did, but he was dedicated, focused and single minded (I'm generally... not so much), and now he's an instructor.  He's clearly a natural athlete (which I am not - more about that later) and a natural or very learned performer (also, me, not).  Don't get me wrong, he put in the time and worked his ass off and deserves it.  He's also a good teacher.  Lots of natural athletes can do it right after seeing it a few times, but can't break it down, analyze and articulate it, and talk about it to a nerdy, all-up-in-my-head learner like me.  Lest you think I have a crush on him, I'll just mention he talks really really fast.  Maybe he's talking as fast as he learned.  I kept waiting for my brain to catch up with his words.  Not even the concepts or an understanding, just the words.... 

It was an intense class - we definitely got our money's worth. He expects you to learn fast too.  He covered a fairly long series in a single class.  I felt like I was a little behind and never quite catching up all class, but I never felt like I'd completely lost sight of him.  As soon as I started feeling like the footwork was coming along he was talking about frame and leading and using the floor and cuban motion.  But if we started thinking about that too much and lost the basic footwork, he dropped all that, declared it optional, and hit the basics again.  Intimidating, but we really did cover a lot of ground.

I also took a class on "dancing with emotion" that he taught.  He says it's a class he finds challenging to teach, and it's incredibly challenging to learn, for me personally.  I'm usually up in my head and thinking about footwork, leading, frame, floorcraft, and a million other things.  I've gotten feedback on my dancing that uses words like "distant" and "platonic", and I was not dancing with my sister at the time.  I have a very easy time getting up in my head and a very hard time getting in my body.  And an even harder time getting out and making a connection with my dance partner.  Having a million details that want to be in my head and aren't automatic in my body doesn't help.  The only thing that's automatic is beat, and I still manage to get onto the wrong foot and have to restart that once in a while.  But all this is between me and my partner.  There have been a couple of exceptions, but...

The Turk used Rumba which he characterized, wonderfully, as "the pillow talk dance", and Argentine tango.  The point of the Argentine tango, I think, was to free us from the straightjacket of rhythm, and let us move and feel, feel and move.  Of course, for me, rhythm isn't a straightjacket, it's a comfy tee shirt I wear all the time.  On the other hand, the rhythm in my body is definitely something I lean on, and not having to think about rhythm isn't sufficient to get me out making a connection with my partner.  Maybe knocking away that crutch was helpful.

Of course, I've had no Argentine tango, so for the most part it was just a new set of footwork for me to distract/occupy/obsess myself with.  Not good for connecting to my partner.  But that's me, I'd have found another excuse not to connect.

And connecting with a partner is very much the point, and the challenge for me.  If she's not there and real and human, and I'm not aware of her body, I can't lead, I can't respond to where she's at, I can't guide and protect and display her as I should, and desire. And we're both missing most of the fun.

Not to mention, connecting with my partner is the point in other, deeper ways.

Sunday, September 16, 2012

Samba Workshop

I attended a Samba workshop, though Samba is not on my current curriculum.  Well, at least it wasn't. 

Like all human endeavors, dancing is fractally detailed. There is an infinite amount to learn about a near infinite different kinds of dances.

There's no time to learn it all, unless you learn awfully fast.

Thursday, September 13, 2012

Waltz - Promenade and Twinkle

So here's the data dump on my Waltz group class the other night.

It was a fairly full and almost perfectly balanced class, we were short one lady. We spent the first half of class working on promenade - most of us had some familiarity with the move, but we all could use work on it. The latter part of the class we spent on twinkle and left and right twinkle (or as we called the move, "George"...) I hadn't been exposed to twinkle and left and right twinkle, but I managed to pick up the basics and footwork fairly quickly. Just the last half of promenade, starting at the other end of the box, on the other foot. The nuggets I was most in need of were those having to do with my frame and lead.

The mantra "nose and toes" is something I'd heard before, and my interpretation is that the point is to signal definitively with your head and toes, without getting your hips too much out of square. I definitely have a tendency to not lead the promenade with my head, and one of my partners really helped me understand how important that is to her following, because she just had a much harder time following when I got sloppy with my head. The other thing I need to remind myself is that it also looks fabulous.

The Young Turk really helped us pay attention to what the leader's right arm was doing during the "nose and toes" setup phase of promenade/twinkle. I'd been elongating my frame somewhat, but TYT pointed out that the gentlemen should actually be executing a right turning action with his right arm, resulting in a lady that's slightly more behind in frame, and slightly pivoted open - set up perfectly for promenade. Plus she ends up cradled in your right arm which gives her the stable, supportive structure she needs to really cut loose on her develope'.

The other thing that seemed to help a lot is my focusing on maintaining a positive connection with my left hand. The right turning action and frame elongation often felt like I was taking away the strong connection we had, and a positive left hand connection made that feel much more secure and definitive. This also made it feel like I was shifting slightly inside a strong, stable frame rather than it feeling sloppy.


Monday, September 10, 2012

Social dancing and group classes

So I haven't been blogging for a long time much at all. I keep wanting to make these deep, thoughtful, insightful posts, and there's not a lot of that going on in my dancing. Maybe there never was. Lately, I've been dancing a lot (which is better than blogging about it, I think you'll agree), but I'm trying to keep all the action in my body rather than being all up in my head. Or at least, these are my excuses for not blogging. I've got drafts of nine "deep" posts, I swear.  But then, I've had them all for months, so...

I've decided just to blog everything and quit holding out for significance. So here are some random notes from recent group classes.

Lately, I'm trying to participate on all the group classes that cover what I think of as socially useful dances: Salsa, Rumba, Country, and (to a lesser extent) Swing and Foxtrot. How is this different than just going to ALL the group classes, you ask?

Well, first of all, I'm not going when the dance is totally new to me, which happens with what strikes me as surprising frequency. There's a bunch of dances in the world, and they offer most of them. Cha Cha, Samba, Quickstep, Paso Doble, Jive, Hustle, Argentine Tango, Viennese Waltz and Bolero are all stuff I've recently skipped. I probably should add Cha Cha at some point relatively soon, as there's a lot of Cha Cha-able music out there - lots of pop and rock, which surprised me.

Secondly, Before the "Socially useful" dance push, I was spending most of my time on Waltz and Tango, just because I love them so much. And down that same path I could see Viennese Waltz, Argentine Tango, and Bolero looming. Since my one of my main goals is explicitly social, it was clear I needed to emphasize the social dances more than I had been. Tango is definitely a "dancer's dance", and though waltz is fairly social, I need more venue options than Italian weddings. I think I have a lot more to say about the social vs beloved dichotomy, but if I let this post go to long, I'll trap myself in a rewriting/editing cycle, so set that aside for now.

Two Step: It was a small class, I was happy to know about two figures that my partner didn't (not bragging - the score was about four figures for me versus her two). I tried them on her anyway during warm-up, on the theory that if I timed them right, and led them definitively enough, it would all work out fine. That was interesting and instructive if not totally successful.

We did basic underarm turn right, and underarm sweetheart turn (which was new to me). We also did Promenade (new to me, very fox-trotty, unsurprisingly) and a couple of un-sweetheart turns (hey, it's my blog, I get to invent terms for things that have official names if I want to. Especially if I don't remember them). Anyway, I pretty much know one easy, basic way to half turn my partner out of sweetheart, and I've been briefly exposed to a much flashier, turn and a half version, but I know I couldn't do it without at least referring to my notes and maybe not even then.

Rumba class:  This was a pretty full class, and everybody there was pretty experienced, for a basics class. There was one person who was even less experienced than me, but he was game and so Dance-Sama took that as permission to pile on a bunch of stuff. We are working over several weeks toward an extended series, that starts with Basic, Cross Body Lead, Open Breaks, Underarm Turn / 5th Position Break, Swivel Promenade. Yes, she covered all that in one class.

This was a lot for me to take in, but it's starting to make sense, I'm starting to have some body intuition regarding dancing. I've done cross body lead in Salsa and Rumba, and it's starting to make sense that in Rumba I need the forward step that precedes the Salsa version in order to get the forward and back motion that Salsa gives you for free. Doesn't mean my body will remember to do it, but it's a start.

I'd seen most of the other figures before, so nothing earth shattering, and I certainly could use all the practice I can get. The Swivel Promenade was new, and we barely got to that in the time we had. I stayed after and practiced a little, with a partner initially, then alone.

The other insight was Dance-Sama made me feel the correct posture (or at least a better posture) for Rumba (and probably for life - I tend to have the typical nerd's horrible posture). Shoulders back, everything else in and up and slightly forward. I'm working on making that habitual.

Waltz class tonight. Social and beloved. A two-fer!